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If you are currently getting divorced, then you truly are going through hell on earth – regardless of whether you wanted the divorce or not.

Divorce is an Equal-Opportunity Misery Maker

In most breakups, both people have some part in the relationship’s ending. However, regardless of who actually files for divorce, one person usually wants the relationship to end more than the other person does. I call the person who wants the divorce more the “dumper,” and the person who wants the divorce less, the “dumpee.”